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Yeah, but you were saying we're not like the sahabiyaat either so b4 you were obviously talking about our deen, not yours. (since I was comparing you guys to the sahaba) i lost track if we're even or not..... wait, no we're not.

You started the comparison with Sahaba, not me. Both the men and women of our time are equally flawed. So that does nothing to negate my argument.

Well he should be satisfied. He should work hard so he could get hur al3een in jannah () instead of just fulfilling his desires in this dunya. If that was the case, why did Allah made polygamy lawful in the first place? And that too with not many restrictions? Ta'addud-e-azwaaj is in the fitrah of man. Try as you might to explain it away, but men, generally speaking, are polygamous by nature, just as women are possessive and jealous by nature.

But if a man can't control himself () Why should he control himself when Allah has already given him a lawful means to fulfill those desires? Why would he restrict himself from that which Allah has made halaal for him?

and one wife isn't enough then thats up to him and his wife(which I feel sorry for). What is there to feel sorry about?

But she can still put 'no polygamy' in the contract just like the questionor asked in the first place. Perhaps. But then again, we all know what happened when the Messenger of Allah , in order to please his wives, prohibited for himself that which Allah made permissible:

يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ لِمَ تُحَرِّمُ مَا أَحَلَّ اللَّهُ لَكَ تَبْتَغِي مَرْضَاتَ أَزْوَاجِكَ وَاللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ
66:1 O PROPHET! Why dost thou, out of a desire to please [one or another of] thy wives, impose [on thyself] a prohibition of something that God has made lawful to thee? But God is much-forgiving, a dispenser of grace