And now when men go out and marry for their desires, the kids get messed up, the wife gets messed up, because the man isn't handling it right. And I know about this because I know a few men who went out to satisfy their desires and their sons back home ended up in jail with drug abuse and their wife can't handle it. But I'm not saying all men are like that -- but you have to agree that its a very hard task for a man to juggle out fairly