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**Tapupah** · 12-02-2010, 12:30 PM

...and doesn't help your point one bit, because the same can be said about men who have one wife as well.

No it can't actually because if he has one wife then those are his only kids so he has no excuse not to be there for them (focus on them). On the other hand, if he has another wife (or others) then he's going to have so many different kids going through the different phases in life in all different times. While one's going through the difficult teenage years, the other is still scared of the monster in the dark and needs her daddy. Only good Islamic and awesome men can handle that. And to top it off, each wife wants her attention as well. If you can handle that, then go ahead..(to the general lol not to you specifically)

btw glad i didn't drive you away

12-02-2010, 12:30 PM	#31
Tapupah Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 474 Senior Member	...and doesn't help your point one bit, because the same can be said about men who have one wife as well. No it can't actually because if he has one wife then those are his only kids so he has no excuse not to be there for them (focus on them). On the other hand, if he has another wife (or others) then he's going to have so many different kids going through the different phases in life in all different times. While one's going through the difficult teenage years, the other is still scared of the monster in the dark and needs her daddy. Only good Islamic and awesome men can handle that. And to top it off, each wife wants her attention as well. If you can handle that, then go ahead..(to the general lol not to you specifically) btw glad i didn't drive you away
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