asalam thank you zahed, rather then giving her tools to debate them, advice her to stay away. also what i said before which nobody seemed to reply on, is it not in out beliefs then men and woman should not communicate unless its unavoidable. and really nessecerly.. so all the long long stories could have been avoided by just advicing her to stay away. and then in her own time and need for knowledge she can eduacate herself about these shia ,s in order for her to not repect this dubble sin, talking to men, and mixing with mushrikeen. masalam