asalam, brother i think these shia ppl, would twist and use anything in order convert a person. i even read about stories them pretending to be sunni, marry a sunni woman. aoudu billahi mini shjitani rashim.. and then turn into cruel husbands once they made it known that they are shia. truly horrible, i guess that they didnt even know that the marriage is not even valid in this case, but that is still terrible after u have consumated the marriage and maybe even carrying a child by him but it shows you how far they go into winning ppl to their side. sister your so lucky that he didnt do this to you, because of your niceniss seems to me you are way to nice with him. be hard in this situation .. masalam