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**hansen384cbh** · 05-22-2012, 03:01 PM

Saffiya are you a modernist trying to change islam to suite your whims and desires, just because you have had a bad experience with polygamy does not mean its bad, if a man can fulfil the rights of only 1 wife then he should only get married once and if he can fulfil the rights of two then he can marry 2 etc.

It is the influence of culture that is making you restrict islam to just allowing 1 wife and then modernists like you moan when men start following culture by not marrying divorcees, older women and widows, if you are not educated to give an opinion then please don't, you can still delete your article.

In your first sentence you ask the sister whether or not she is a modernist. Without giving her a chance to reply, you go on to subsequently judge that she is a modernist? My question to you is, why did you ask whether she is a modernist or not when you have all passed your judgement?

05-22-2012, 03:01 PM	#37
hansen384cbh Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 418 Senior Member	Saffiya are you a modernist trying to change islam to suite your whims and desires, just because you have had a bad experience with polygamy does not mean its bad, if a man can fulfil the rights of only 1 wife then he should only get married once and if he can fulfil the rights of two then he can marry 2 etc. It is the influence of culture that is making you restrict islam to just allowing 1 wife and then modernists like you moan when men start following culture by not marrying divorcees, older women and widows, if you are not educated to give an opinion then please don't, you can still delete your article. In your first sentence you ask the sister whether or not she is a modernist. Without giving her a chance to reply, you go on to subsequently judge that she is a modernist? My question to you is, why did you ask whether she is a modernist or not when you have all passed your judgement?
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