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Old 05-20-2012, 06:48 AM   #20
BorBitExatini

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Akhi, I'm not tablighi. I would love to go with them and learn from them, but I haven't got the opportunity. Do you think I am ready for it?
I didn't mean anything about that last sentence bro. I just said it because sometimes I say things (like just there - you corrected me) which are wrong and the people also get misguided. I just say what I learnt and because of that I have to make it known that in no way am I following something which would possibly affect (make you doubt) your following of a different thing. Forgive me if I have offended you. I am curious as to what tactics brother. Is it something you learn from experience that you can't really speak of? Don't worry, I won't call you shaykh this time.
Well... By tactics I've meant a system of convincing someone to make him correct. During giving Dawah, this system plays a vital role on the success. I'm briefing it:
At first, the person is praised for his good virtues.
Secondly, politely he is shown the correct thing.
Finally, apologizing and seeking correction with humble request.

Example: If you go to a local leader who is a muslim (by name), at first start conversation with praising him- Mashallaah, Allaah has made you a leader. You are perfect for this job. You are very skilled etc etc.
Then start saying the greatness of Allaah and remind him about death. Later advise him very politely to be regular in Amaal and to avoid corruption.
Finally apologize and request him for making Du'a.
This strategy is very effective even with arrogant and ignorant people.

Please forgive me for my silly arguments. Remember me in your Du'a. (This part is real. I'm not implementing above mentioned tactics on you.)
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