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**kertUtire** · 06-10-2011, 11:54 PM

Asalam wr wb

There is no dispute that kindness etc. Is due to our parents, but does anyone know of any authentic text making it obligatory to "love" our parents? What if one hates his father because of his foul conduct(arrogance,bad language, adopting the ways and actions of the kuffar) and odd/lazy look on Islamic issues which the persons mother and family can unanimously agree that he has, but he shows none of the hate
Would this extreme dislike be permissible?

“Hadhrat Ibn Abbaas (radhiallahu anhu) narrates that Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said, ‘That person who awakes (in the morning) in the condition that he is obedient to Allaah with regard to his parents, (i.e. he treats them well in accordance to the Shariah), then he has made the morning in such a condition that the doors of Jannat(Paradise) are opened for him. If one of his parents are alive and he reaches the morning in such a condition that he is obedient to Allaah regarding his parent, then he has reached the morning in such a condition that one door of Jannat is opened for him.
As for the person who reaches the morning in such a condition that he is disobedient to Allaah Ta`ala regarding his parents (i.e. he is disobedient to his parents) then he has reached the morning in the condition that the doors of Jahannum (Hell)are opened for him. If one of his parents are alive and he reaches the morning in such a condition that he is disobedient to Allaah regarding his parent, then he has reached the morning in such a condition that one door of Jahannum is opened for him.’One person asked, ‘Even if his parents have oppressed him? (That is, will this ruling still apply in that case?)’
Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) replied by repeating thrice, ‘Even if his parents had oppressed him, even if his parents had oppressed him, even if his parents had oppressed him.’”
[Baihaqi / Mishkaat Shareef, page 421]

06-10-2011, 11:54 PM	#2
kertUtire Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 392 Senior Member	Asalam wr wb There is no dispute that kindness etc. Is due to our parents, but does anyone know of any authentic text making it obligatory to "love" our parents? What if one hates his father because of his foul conduct(arrogance,bad language, adopting the ways and actions of the kuffar) and odd/lazy look on Islamic issues which the persons mother and family can unanimously agree that he has, but he shows none of the hate Would this extreme dislike be permissible? “Hadhrat Ibn Abbaas (radhiallahu anhu) narrates that Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said, ‘That person who awakes (in the morning) in the condition that he is obedient to Allaah with regard to his parents, (i.e. he treats them well in accordance to the Shariah), then he has made the morning in such a condition that the doors of Jannat(Paradise) are opened for him. If one of his parents are alive and he reaches the morning in such a condition that he is obedient to Allaah regarding his parent, then he has reached the morning in such a condition that one door of Jannat is opened for him. As for the person who reaches the morning in such a condition that he is disobedient to Allaah Ta`ala regarding his parents (i.e. he is disobedient to his parents) then he has reached the morning in the condition that the doors of Jahannum (Hell)are opened for him. If one of his parents are alive and he reaches the morning in such a condition that he is disobedient to Allaah regarding his parent, then he has reached the morning in such a condition that one door of Jahannum is opened for him.’One person asked, ‘Even if his parents have oppressed him? (That is, will this ruling still apply in that case?)’ Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) replied by repeating thrice, ‘Even if his parents had oppressed him, even if his parents had oppressed him, even if his parents had oppressed him.’” [Baihaqi / Mishkaat Shareef, page 421]
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