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**boanuatiguali** · 05-14-2012, 12:17 AM

for helping me to bring tears on my eyes.

bhai, good that happened, as far as I know, you too are unmarried, and you too can make niyyah, what say? don't trust the finances, salary, put your trust on Allah SWT's treasure, you know it, 1st point of the 6 points...

Assalamu alaykum

What we do here is; adopt a orphan and admit he/she in a well organised madrasah (they offer hygenic food, washing machine facility etc). Bear all the expenses till his/her stay in madrasah. The child will get deeni education. Normally people adopt 1 to 5 children.

and this is what we do too, may Allah SWT grant and save my ikhlaas, amen. Now we are putting pressure on the madrasah zimmedars to teach them english...even putting the fikr in the students too. I eat their brain sometimes on this.

^ Is that so? Most people I know from the subcontinent are very averse to adoption, and very verbose about it. Just yesterday I had such a conversation. It was quite painful to hear the generalization and the reasons why one should not adopt. I find it irritating hearing the words "Be patient, you will be granted your own child", when the adoption idea was never about having ones own child, but rather to take care of one who has no parents.

After the child has completed his/her education, is he/she still treated as an adopted child?

true, they'll think couples must have problems or something to be adopting, but those really are small challenges, if we start looking at what the society will say, then Allah SWT forbid, nothing will get done...

As in tabligh they say, lets ask ourselves: (something on these lines)

"What does Allah SWT want from me now?"

05-14-2012, 12:17 AM	#31
boanuatiguali Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 479 Senior Member	for helping me to bring tears on my eyes. bhai, good that happened, as far as I know, you too are unmarried, and you too can make niyyah, what say? don't trust the finances, salary, put your trust on Allah SWT's treasure, you know it, 1st point of the 6 points... Assalamu alaykum What we do here is; adopt a orphan and admit he/she in a well organised madrasah (they offer hygenic food, washing machine facility etc). Bear all the expenses till his/her stay in madrasah. The child will get deeni education. Normally people adopt 1 to 5 children. and this is what we do too, may Allah SWT grant and save my ikhlaas, amen. Now we are putting pressure on the madrasah zimmedars to teach them english...even putting the fikr in the students too. I eat their brain sometimes on this. ^ Is that so? Most people I know from the subcontinent are very averse to adoption, and very verbose about it. Just yesterday I had such a conversation. It was quite painful to hear the generalization and the reasons why one should not adopt. I find it irritating hearing the words "Be patient, you will be granted your own child", when the adoption idea was never about having ones own child, but rather to take care of one who has no parents. After the child has completed his/her education, is he/she still treated as an adopted child? true, they'll think couples must have problems or something to be adopting, but those really are small challenges, if we start looking at what the society will say, then Allah SWT forbid, nothing will get done... As in tabligh they say, lets ask ourselves: (something on these lines) "What does Allah SWT want from me now?"
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