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Old 05-14-2012, 12:21 AM   #34
itaspCatCriny

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You again raised a very pertinent point that adopted kids could be mistreated, but due to the barakah of tabligh, my parents have raised me in a deeni environment, I really believe I can be a great father in my part of the world, such stories of kids being mistreated is an almost daily news story if I had already married and had kids, perhaps just perhaps I may not have been as keen as I'm now, 'coz now I can plan ahead, yet I think if you put your trust in Allah SWT, He will show you the way...
Good point brother and may Allah (SWT) make it possible for you.

Please, do not take my comments as being directed at you. Just by creating this thread, you've worn your heart on your sleeve (as the saying goes) and insha'Allah you will be a caregiver that Allah (SWT) is pleased with. My comments were general so that we don't pressure people to adopt who may not be in a condition to do so but everyone can contribute in one form or another insha'Allah - regardless of economic condition or temperament etc. I mean, if we could all accept from Allah (SWT) the responsibility for the needs (including love) of at least one child, it would be beautiful and insha'Allah, increasingly possible for our ummah.

May we all strive more and more to earn the pleasure of Allah (SWT). Ameen.
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