You again raised a very pertinent point that adopted kids could be mistreated, but due to the barakah of tabligh, my parents have raised me in a deeni environment, I really believe I can be a great father in my part of the world, such stories of kids being mistreated is an almost daily news story if I had already married and had kids, perhaps just perhaps I may not have been as keen as I'm now, 'coz now I can plan ahead, yet I think if you put your trust in Allah SWT, He will show you the way...