Good point brother and may Allah (SWT) make it possible for you. Please, do not take my comments as being directed at you. Just by creating this thread, you've worn your heart on your sleeve (as the saying goes) and insha'Allah you will be a caregiver that Allah (SWT) is pleased with. My comments were general so that we don't pressure people to adopt who may not be in a condition to do so but everyone can contribute in one form or another insha'Allah - regardless of economic condition or temperament etc. I mean, if we could all accept from Allah (SWT) the responsibility for the needs (including love) of at least one child, it would be beautiful and insha'Allah, increasingly possible for our ummah. May we all strive more and more to earn the pleasure of Allah (SWT). Ameen.