View Single Post
Old 05-13-2012, 05:28 AM   #12
nerrttrw

Join Date
Oct 2005
Posts
588
Senior Member
Default
Assalamualaikum everyone

Alright, so....with regards to marriage, it often starts off as arranged but one thing that isn't explained enough for me is the FEELINGS and attraction and its importance in the matter.

Does Islam say that you should marry somebody who you already fell in love with, or would it be more advisable to marry someone with a good character and then let love blossom later on? It makes sense, but what if that love never blossoms and you never end up falling in love with them? Could that indeed be a possibility?

Please share your thoughts on this, jazakhallah!
If you get married and love doesn't blossom, and this is important for you, ask the man to divorce you, so you can carry on looking for someone to fall in love with. EASY!!
nerrttrw is offline


 

All times are GMT +1. The time now is 03:29 AM.
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Design & Developed by Amodity.com
Copyright© Amodity