It wouldn't make sense translated in Urdu though (what of your father is going). According to my husband, tell the person the hadeeth of Rasulullah ie Leave that which does not concern you. Imam Abu Dawood said that this advice is 1/4 of deen. You can also politely tell them that you dont like eating raw meat. Maybe they will get the hint. And if they do take offence, then lucky for you; after all you're ears will be safe.