[Deseassaugs]

Brother, I think the next time you see him, you should politely ask him. As I said I'm sure their could any number of possible reasons - what we may think is a legitimate reason may not be so for another person and vice versa. But being quick to forgive and not to assume should be something we do automatically, I know this is what I fail at and must strive to achieve.

And after all this thread maybe perceived as back-biting in another form, Astagfirullah.