The language of the heart is different. Munasibat means the mureed has love for the Shaykh. Love speaks its own language. When hearts start communicating, the mouth's stop speaking. When the heart of the mureed leans towards the Shaykh, Allah puts the same feelings in the heart of the Shaykh Some mureeds are walking behind the Shaykh daily, picking his shoes, giving him gifts... even though they are close to the Shaykh physically, their hearts are far away from him. There are some who are far away physically but their hearts they are very close by. They benefit the most. Most mureeds make a false claim of love. They are in love with the Shaykhs buzrugi. Not the Shaykh himseelf