[Ruidselisse]

i think you should put yur mothers happiness first and do whatever makes her happy

but there is something that is quite a concern from what i have noticed about people from back home

the whole age thing....a lot of guys from back home have zero criteria when finding a wife except one thing....she must be a UK citizen. Just try and find out what his motives are....it could be that he is sincere there just aint too many young guys nowadays who will marry someone that much older than them who has kids etc