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**NutChusty** · 04-09-2012, 09:29 PM

Umm Salmah (r) reported that the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam said:

"If a woman's husband is pleased with her when she dies, then she will enter Paradise."

Related by at-Tirmidhi

What is the ruling in the reverse case? What should a wife do when her husband doesn;t follow Allah's commandments? Does she have a right to be angry with him for the sake of Allah?

When a wife refuses to keep a television set in her house to avoid watching non-mehrams, does she deserve to be left alone in her house?

Taking pictures is forbidden in Islam; he gets angry when I tell him to keep my children away when his family members celebrate their birthdays; he happily joins them and clicks pictures which get posted on facebook which i absolutely loathe!

Doing hijab from your cousins of opposite sex is a ruling of Allah SWT, what should a woman do when she finds her husband hugging his cousin sister? (My heart broke intoa million pieces; especially since he didn't have the kindness to hold his freshly-weak-from-delivery-wife's hand; but he had so much compassion for a crying over a trivial thing cousin sister that he HUGGED her)

So what is the ruling of a woman angry with her husband?

I read on this forum in a thread titled "Are you a jannati husband/wife?" if a man gets angry when others order his wife around like a servant... Is a husband supposed to treat his wife like a servant, expect her to work soon as she delivered her child; albeit the normal way?

Is she supposed to do his father's chores when his mother is absent?

Does she deserve to be humiliated on disobeying one command of his by expressing anger in front of them and shouting at her and beating her when alone?

I had fallen in love with my husband after our nikah, he'd said he loved me too. After all that expressed above, I don;t feel any love toward my husband, Allah forgive me.

I told him I wished to leave for my parents in another country, he'd said he wouldn't send me. And that he loved me. Even when the wounds of my heart hadn;t completely healed, I told him I forgave him.

I don't think I have completely.

04-09-2012, 09:29 PM	#1
NutChusty Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 565 Senior Member	To whom it may concern Umm Salmah (r) reported that the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam said: "If a woman's husband is pleased with her when she dies, then she will enter Paradise." Related by at-Tirmidhi What is the ruling in the reverse case? What should a wife do when her husband doesn;t follow Allah's commandments? Does she have a right to be angry with him for the sake of Allah? When a wife refuses to keep a television set in her house to avoid watching non-mehrams, does she deserve to be left alone in her house? Taking pictures is forbidden in Islam; he gets angry when I tell him to keep my children away when his family members celebrate their birthdays; he happily joins them and clicks pictures which get posted on facebook which i absolutely loathe! Doing hijab from your cousins of opposite sex is a ruling of Allah SWT, what should a woman do when she finds her husband hugging his cousin sister? (My heart broke intoa million pieces; especially since he didn't have the kindness to hold his freshly-weak-from-delivery-wife's hand; but he had so much compassion for a crying over a trivial thing cousin sister that he HUGGED her) So what is the ruling of a woman angry with her husband? I read on this forum in a thread titled "Are you a jannati husband/wife?" if a man gets angry when others order his wife around like a servant... Is a husband supposed to treat his wife like a servant, expect her to work soon as she delivered her child; albeit the normal way? Is she supposed to do his father's chores when his mother is absent? Does she deserve to be humiliated on disobeying one command of his by expressing anger in front of them and shouting at her and beating her when alone? I had fallen in love with my husband after our nikah, he'd said he loved me too. After all that expressed above, I don;t feel any love toward my husband, Allah forgive me. I told him I wished to leave for my parents in another country, he'd said he wouldn't send me. And that he loved me. Even when the wounds of my heart hadn;t completely healed, I told him I forgave him. I don't think I have completely.
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