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We have to adapt with changes of the world and else you are ......finished!

That is a whisper of the Shaytaan. Sins like Lust, Zina(adultery) etc are not 'NEW' issues. They are issues since the creation of Man. So the solutions to them are already mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah. Nowadays people don't even try the Islamic way, which worked for centuries, rather they are going behind 'new' obscures methods. Why try to reinvent the wheel.

Islam doesn't stop one from learning the Fiqh of sexual matters. The Sahabah used to ask questions on this topic to Rasoolullah and He used to answer them too. But one shouldn't forget Haya(modesty), it is a part of Imaan. One shouldn't be like 'modern' people who exchange stupid explicit jokes between men and women without any regret whatsoever.

I myself lived a life of 'jahalliyya'. When I started visiting Sunniforum, I realized the importance of lowering the Gaze, and modesty (Haya). I tried to implement it in my life, but it was very difficult initially. But alhamdulillah I m getting used to it and things have changed drastically, even though I m far from perfect. All these years I never tried, when I started making a small effort, I understood the 'efficiency' of solutions mentioned in ISLAM.

People should adapt to ISLAM. that will solve alot of problems.