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Can you provide me any valid hadith that say's us men and women to prey in different manner?

Yes here you are, lots of hadith that highlight the differences between the prayer of men and women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rA3mDDbAtRo

Yeah they follow salaf but they dont blindly follow someone as hanafi or shafi or malaki or hanafi group's. Is your knowledge of Islam more then that of Shah Waliullah's? Do you have more knowledge of Islam than Salahudding Ayyubi? Both of these were great men. You definitely must have heard of them. One was a Hanafi and the other was Shafi! Were they wrong?

Quran say's us to follow rasoolAllah salallahu alayhi wassalm. and not anyone else.
Did allah say's us in quran to follow sahaba? "O you who believe! Follow Allah; follow the Messenger and those of authority (Amr) amongst you." (Surah Al-Nisaa: 59)
You just made a lie. Because the Quran doesn't say not to follow anyone else. In fact the above ayat clearly mentions following the "amr".

Yeah they follow salaf but they dont blindly follow someone as hanafi or shafi or malaki or hanafi group's. They do blindly follow their scholars. Whatever explanation of a hadith is given by Albani, they accept it blindly and if you open your eyes you will see that such explanations of hadith have never been given by anyone else before. For example, a hadith is given in Bukhari and Imam Bukhari's student explained it very different then what today's salafis explain it.

Salafi is just a name given by our scholar's nothing else so i don't mind calling myself as salafi. So if your scholars decide to give the name of "sahabi" to will you not mind calling yourself a sahabi? Then how can you even call yourself a salafi when you know only the first 3 generations are known as the salaf? If you think its ok to call yourself a salafi, then according to your logic you can also call yourself a sahabi!

Here is another verse from the Quran:
"So ask the people of remembrance if you know not." (Surah Al-Nahl: 43)
This is why people "ask" Imam Abu Hanifa, Imam Shafi etc when they "know not". Clearly they are only obeying the Quran in doing so.
When you don't know, its better to take from someone who has seen the sahaba (Imam Abu Hanifa) instead of blindly accepting what a salafi scholar explains.

Here are some hadith:
The Beloved Prophet (Salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Allah will never allow my Ummah to unite upon misguidance and incorrect beliefs. Allah’s mercy, blessings and protection are with the largest group of Muslims. And he who deviates from this largest group of Muslims will be thrown into Hell.” (Sunan Al Tirmizi Vol.2 Pg.39)

The Beloved Prophet (Salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “He who deviates from the largest group of Muslims, even as much as a hand span, has himself cut off his connection with Islam”. (Abu Dawud)

Now do some research, find out the largest group of Muslims.
Want to know who they are? It is that group of Muslims who do Taqleed i.e follow one of the Imam.

Blind following = following someone even if it is against quran and sunnah.
Following = Following someone until he is not against quran and sunnah. These so called salafi scholars have put it into the mind of people like you that following the we follow the Imams even if they are against Quran and Sunnah. I CHALLENGE you to post just one fatwa of any Imam which is against a sunnah without the Imam having used ANY hadith or verse of the Quran for that fatwa. There could be hadith which look like they are opposite to what the Imam says but keep it mind, what the Imam says is also based on another sahi hadith!
So when you have 2 different hadith, how are you doing to decide which one to follow? How are you going to decide which is sahi which is daeef? You WILL have to BLINDLY follow some salafi scholars opinion on which hadith to follow when 2 of them appear contradictory.