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**Rtebydou** · 03-21-2012, 06:54 AM

May Allah forgive me for asking such a stupid question:

I try my best to be the perfect muslim, following the example of nabiyullah sallahu alayhi wasalam.
In this case i try my very best to lower my gaze, and how tough is this task when living in a city like this (london).
So i'm a student at this college in west london, and there's a learning center or libary where students do extra study, i usually go there to catch up or to study in general. This beautiful girl who i don't know if she's muslim or not, for a while i noticed she looks at me at times, when i look back she looks away and talks to her frinds, today one of my friends told me that when i was walking out of the libary she was looking at me for a good 4 seconds, i try my best not to excite this situation, but i must not be harsh on this girl, and say "Don't give me looks" Neither would i walk up to her with the haram pick up line " U wanna go out with me" I still await to see how this situation elevates, I'd like to here from the muslim ummah how do i handle such a situation in a appropiate islamic way?

Jazakallah.

03-21-2012, 06:54 AM	#1
Rtebydou Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 469 Senior Member	Brothers and Sisters forgive me for asking this question but i have no choice! May Allah forgive me for asking such a stupid question: I try my best to be the perfect muslim, following the example of nabiyullah sallahu alayhi wasalam. In this case i try my very best to lower my gaze, and how tough is this task when living in a city like this (london). So i'm a student at this college in west london, and there's a learning center or libary where students do extra study, i usually go there to catch up or to study in general. This beautiful girl who i don't know if she's muslim or not, for a while i noticed she looks at me at times, when i look back she looks away and talks to her frinds, today one of my friends told me that when i was walking out of the libary she was looking at me for a good 4 seconds, i try my best not to excite this situation, but i must not be harsh on this girl, and say "Don't give me looks" Neither would i walk up to her with the haram pick up line " U wanna go out with me" I still await to see how this situation elevates, I'd like to here from the muslim ummah how do i handle such a situation in a appropiate islamic way? Jazakallah.
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