[harriettvanders]

Brother, don't give yourself up to any women. Your life is not a play thing and don't let others play with it. I always say that men can destroy their enemies through their physical strength and women can destroy their enemies through their emotional strength. Both have strengths!!! You should give yourself up to Allah only. Did that women create you? Did she sustain you? No. All of a sudden she butts in to your life and tries to take away your freedom of obedience to Allah. Don't take any of it. If anything, you should have hatred for what she is trying to do if she is indeed trying to do it. But remember that also the shaytaan will try and trick you and so when you actually convince yourself that you should speak to her and ignore your concience, she would be like "I was never interested in you. I was just looking at you for another reason. I will call the police if you don't leave me alone". And then that's it brother. You've made the intention and the decision and you actually walked towards with all your ability to commit zina or atleast involve yourself into a fahsha relationship, and that could be enough to get you the sin wallaahu A'lam. And this is despite you failing to do what you desired. How decieving are the promises of shaytan.