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Old 03-21-2012, 11:00 PM   #19
truck

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Salaam brother,
I feel for you I know how hard situations like this can be but this just isn't when your single or studying this is something we have to deal with throughout live even when your married and you have a beard and your working, this is something which is very difficult to avoid living in the western world.

A hadith comes to mind which I am posting just so it puts you off any temptation because this duniya is temptation, not sure the authenticity of this hadith but it's still worth a read.

In hadith the Prophet strongly warns the Believers about the seriousness of shaking hands with women. It was narrated on Malik bin Yassir that Rasool Allah said that it is better for a Believer to be struck in the head with a hot iron rod than to touch a woman who is not lawful for him.[Tabarani & Baihaqqi]

Rasulullah S.A.W. said "It is better for a man that a steel nail be driven through the centre of his head....rather than if he touches the palm of a strange women" Rasulullah S.A.W. said "It is better for a man that a steel nail be driven through the centre of his head....rather than if he touches the palm of a strange women"

Brother stay in wudhu, keep nafl fasting, keep on top of your salah, grow a beard perform zikr and inshallah you will have the strength grated to you from the almighty to lower your gaze.
May ALLah grant us all the strength in whatever situation we are in to stay away from the shaytaaan!
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