[StevenS]

BROTHER.. Mash'Allah it sounds as if your working really hard to help your mum. KEEP IT UP! They say if our Mums dont give us their blessings.. non of us will ever go to paradise. But you are helping them in sickness.. Subhan'Allah ..

In life things get difficult.. for all off us.. we hate life and think why us.. why us. But what helps me is.. just think.. that you are lucky, well off.. were nt dieing of hunger like others.. were not poor.. yeah living in the recession may make us feel like being poor but that is rubbish.. we have EVERYTHING but we are too blind to see it.. just remember we are lucky ALHAMDULILAH.. things could be alot worse trust.

But my brother.. you've got to be a soldier.. and fight through these awful thoughts and feelings.. and be happy that you can look after your mum.. it may be tough but one day it will pay of insh'Allah .. I promise you this.. so many people would give anything too be able to look after their parents as they may have passed away. So you are really lucky..do everything and anything your mum wants and needs.. They deserve it, every mother does.. they gave birth too you.. and endured the worst pain ever! Nothing can ever match this pain.. and nothing we can do can repay our Mums for giving birth too us. Our MUMS are just.. I dont know how too explain it because there is no word.. they love us so so so much.. its just naturall.. they would do anything for us and give anything for us.

But we can at least 'Try.. broo.. start making DUA.. Allah Paak is the only ONE who can AND will help you and make things easier for you.. Nobody on this planet can help you or harm you..only if its the will of Allah Paak .. put your 100% trust in them.. also regarding your dad.. dads can be monsters sometime.. MEN can be like this unfortunatley.. speak to your dad.. try talking too him and tell him how you feel.. start practicing your religion bro and this may encourage your dad to practice also.


THINGS WILL GET BETTER.. THEY WILL.. I PROMISE.. JUST DONT LOOSE HOPE.. PUT YOUR TRUST IN YOUR CREATOR.. THATS ALL YOU NEED.

I truly wish for you and make dua for you that May Allah Paak help you.. and all others who are in simillar positions. Brother you are in my duas, stay strong and smile.. through every dark night.. theres a brighter day.. remember that.. so keep ya head up

thats what this place is for.. questions.. queries.. a place to let loose of your emotions and feelings I guess.. so dont be shy.. tell us.. tell me.. I will listen.. I feel your pain brother I really do as I live with my mum who is a single parent and I have to be the MAN.. and I have learnt too enjoy it..it is tough but its worth it in the long run.. and I really do.. just do the above and what others have stated and all will be well. May Allah Paak give your parents health.. wellbeing and faith and same for you and your family and everyone.

Good Luck bruvz