I would rather have a girl who has good character and doesn't wear hijab, then a girl who wore hijab and has bad character. I would rather have a girl who could control her angry and doesn't wear hijab, then a girl who wore hijab and couldn't control your angry. Having good character and controlling one's angry is related to piety and so is wearing hijab.... No one is perfect, so pick and choose wisely where you prefer that piety to manifest. It takes years to perfect character and controlling one's angry... Putting on hijab takes only a second... Plus she only has to wear hijab when outside and in front of certain people... so you will only have to deal with the imperfection part of time, but if she is a person with bad character and gets angry quickly, you will always have to deal with the that imperfection no matter where you are with her... So pick and choose wisely where you want the piety to manifest.... We were designed to sin.... We all sin... So the real question which sins are more tolerable for you as a person, not what other may think of you, but what you can deal with as a person cause you have to live with her. Ain't no body perfect..... NOT even you.... Believe that.... Be wise, we all sin.... which sins can you deal with??? People want their spouse to be so pious as if they are so pious... We all sin to some degree.... And we all have piety to some degree....