[CaseyFronczekHomie]

I don't recall the hadith but I believe it was by hadrat Umar (ra) and something to the effect that don't judge a person by his prayer or fasts but look at his akhlaq (may Allah swt forgive me if I have the incorrect hadith, someone please correct me if I am wrong)

If the girl doesn't wear hijab now it is possible that she will later if you make the right effort but if she has bad akhlaq then no hijab or abaya will save you, because hijab can be acquired but akhlaq is very hard to change.

Make lots of dua and do isthikhara. May Allah swt bless you with a pious wife.