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**Mboxmaja** · 03-11-2012, 09:19 PM

Never! Muslim girls should be economically independent. The biggest tool of women oppression is to make women confined to house. Offcourse , family should be women's FIRST priority but if they can work and want to work...there should be NO obstacle in their path. Men exploit girls just because they know that their wives "depend" on them and also that women will tolerate the oppression and not go for divorce because Muslim societies , for the large part , severely look down upon the divorced women..specially in rural areas. Divorce men can get another good wife but a divorce girl will rarely get a decent unmarried husband....Don't tell me this isn't true.

Brother are you being sarcastic or serious?

Although sarcasm is the most lying type of speech in this instance I think it it would have been better.

Modern workplaces are not good places for good girls or women,

they are nearly all places of flirting, sexual harassment and abuse and places of zina,

they are places where hijabis are typically pressurized to uncover or to dress in a less Islamic way,

they are often places where men and women are put into situations where they are alone together whether they like it or not,

Allah (SWT) has placed two big obstacles in the path of young women in regards working in the modern day, they are that...

1. If a normal healthy girl is grown into a young woman she should be married according to the Holy Prophet (saws) clear words and if she is working and married then the next thing that follows is she will start using contraceptives to prevent pregnancy so that she can continue to work and even if she does not a working young wife is still almost inevitably be depriving her husband of his Islamic rights that she should be available to him and look after his household and children etc.

2. The free mixing of men and women is prohibited in various ways by Islam, therefore even if a young women ignores the Holy Prophet's (saws) clear teaching to marry and instead puts off marriage then she cannot work in a mixed sex environment without mixing and speaking with various non-mahram men throughout the day and these may include bad men and boys who may try to incite her to chit-chat, flirting or even zina. Even if this does not happen it is common for young girls in work situations to develop friendships with non-mahram males, which is of course not halal. These things limit her to a single sex workplace, can you name some of these single-sex workplaces for me?

The mistreatment of Muslim women by their husbands has nothing to do with their wives being at home, it has everything to do with the fact that the husband is an ignorant and/or bad man who does not either know or fear the punishment of Allah (SWT) for the mistreatment of his wife and has no honor or shame in front of her family.

Practising Islam as taught by the Prophet (saws) is the way to ensure the well being of young women, not throwing them out into the world to become the plaything of sinners or at least the workmate, aqcuantance or even freind of strange men.

03-11-2012, 09:19 PM	#31
Mboxmaja Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 510 Senior Member	Never! Muslim girls should be economically independent. The biggest tool of women oppression is to make women confined to house. Offcourse , family should be women's FIRST priority but if they can work and want to work...there should be NO obstacle in their path. Men exploit girls just because they know that their wives "depend" on them and also that women will tolerate the oppression and not go for divorce because Muslim societies , for the large part , severely look down upon the divorced women..specially in rural areas. Divorce men can get another good wife but a divorce girl will rarely get a decent unmarried husband....Don't tell me this isn't true. Brother are you being sarcastic or serious? Although sarcasm is the most lying type of speech in this instance I think it it would have been better. Modern workplaces are not good places for good girls or women, they are nearly all places of flirting, sexual harassment and abuse and places of zina, they are places where hijabis are typically pressurized to uncover or to dress in a less Islamic way, they are often places where men and women are put into situations where they are alone together whether they like it or not, Allah (SWT) has placed two big obstacles in the path of young women in regards working in the modern day, they are that... 1. If a normal healthy girl is grown into a young woman she should be married according to the Holy Prophet (saws) clear words and if she is working and married then the next thing that follows is she will start using contraceptives to prevent pregnancy so that she can continue to work and even if she does not a working young wife is still almost inevitably be depriving her husband of his Islamic rights that she should be available to him and look after his household and children etc. 2. The free mixing of men and women is prohibited in various ways by Islam, therefore even if a young women ignores the Holy Prophet's (saws) clear teaching to marry and instead puts off marriage then she cannot work in a mixed sex environment without mixing and speaking with various non-mahram men throughout the day and these may include bad men and boys who may try to incite her to chit-chat, flirting or even zina. Even if this does not happen it is common for young girls in work situations to develop friendships with non-mahram males, which is of course not halal. These things limit her to a single sex workplace, can you name some of these single-sex workplaces for me? The mistreatment of Muslim women by their husbands has nothing to do with their wives being at home, it has everything to do with the fact that the husband is an ignorant and/or bad man who does not either know or fear the punishment of Allah (SWT) for the mistreatment of his wife and has no honor or shame in front of her family. Practising Islam as taught by the Prophet (saws) is the way to ensure the well being of young women, not throwing them out into the world to become the plaything of sinners or at least the workmate, aqcuantance or even freind of strange men.
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