[Kennypor]

Brother PeaceSeeker. Don't worry about being confused. I was also on such a journey for the past two and half years. Let me tell you something, you should just put a fullstop on indulging in these in-depth discussions. Its like kids trying to solve calculus before studying basic addition and subtraction. They would simply be confused. So what you need to do is stop such 'discussions' for some time. First make sure you are following the 5 pillars of Islam. The best best thing to do is to follow a Madhab. All the four madhabs are a result of verification and counter verifications of Proofs from Quran, Sunnah and reliable sources for 1000+ years. That you won't get from anywhere else. Choose a Madhab whose scholars you have easy access to locally. You mentioned debandi scholars. I am following the shafi'i madhab, but from the books and lectures I have understood that the Deobandi scholars are one of the best among the modern Hanafi scholars. So bro, go back to basics. I myself was a victim of the salafi fitna. But Alhamdulillah I understood that the Madhabs are the best and closest to Islam one can get. There are difference in opinion, but its just like the difference in opinion among the Sahaba, both are right. May Allah make it easy for you. ameen.