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Forgive me if this sounds a little upfront, but there's two points I wish to highlight.

Firstly If one already has an emotional attachment prior to praying salat ul istikhara, it defeats the objective and effectiveness of the prayer. Secondly as muslins our choice in marriage is not dictated to us by love, but our marriage dictates who we chose to love, to entwine destinies with, and therefore i cannot emphasise enough that love should derive from the Nikah and not prior to that.

Humans are feeble creatures, they are impressionable, easily manipulated and once entwined in this net it is very difficult to escape therefore your obsession with this particular individual will not end easily and by considering keeping any further communication with that individual you are only going to make things worse for yourself.

May Allah make things easy for you