with all due respect to shaykh db and you db... i would consider the activation of latifa with the blessed name of Allah (s.w.t) as a blessing, as i assume it will remove my ghaflat and help me in obeying the commandments of shairah. (i dont know much in depth about what happens after activation... but just thinking that we will always be in rememberance of Allah (s.w.t) involuntarily).... This is what i assume as khalwat dar anjuman.. Excuse my ignorance..