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**Hujkmlopes** · 03-03-2012, 06:30 PM

I am quite introverted and I struggle to socialize with people and I find it hard work. I have a full time job so it gets me out and talking with people but usually it is all serious work based talking...little opportunity to create deep meaningful friendships.

I find after socializing I re-live the conversations in my head and start analysing things...maybe I should not have said that or this, what did they mean when they said x and on and on. This can be endless I just ignore all of it usually and say to myself who cares....I hope I did not commit any sins and upset anyone by the things I said. I think I am mus-understood allot...people now a days are keen to put a negative spin on everything that is said or done...few of us practice husne zan...I was shocked to discover that there are people out there who want to actually cause me harm and they become glad when something negative happens to me...I was shocked because I tend to focus on only one Being who holds my destiny in His Power, all Good and Bad are in His Hands, so why would some people actually get glad and even cause harm to me when they themselves are also under this Power and can be wiped out in a moment.

asslmlkm

i have finally recognised few introverts on SF from a recent thread.

just to start with..
share u r ideas / experiences u faced being an introvert.

do u think Extreme Introvert-ness is a sign of danger?? as i have experienced??

03-03-2012, 06:30 PM	#13
Hujkmlopes Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 431 Senior Member	I am quite introverted and I struggle to socialize with people and I find it hard work. I have a full time job so it gets me out and talking with people but usually it is all serious work based talking...little opportunity to create deep meaningful friendships. I find after socializing I re-live the conversations in my head and start analysing things...maybe I should not have said that or this, what did they mean when they said x and on and on. This can be endless I just ignore all of it usually and say to myself who cares....I hope I did not commit any sins and upset anyone by the things I said. I think I am mus-understood allot...people now a days are keen to put a negative spin on everything that is said or done...few of us practice husne zan...I was shocked to discover that there are people out there who want to actually cause me harm and they become glad when something negative happens to me...I was shocked because I tend to focus on only one Being who holds my destiny in His Power, all Good and Bad are in His Hands, so why would some people actually get glad and even cause harm to me when they themselves are also under this Power and can be wiped out in a moment. asslmlkm i have finally recognised few introverts on SF from a recent thread. just to start with.. share u r ideas / experiences u faced being an introvert. do u think Extreme Introvert-ness is a sign of danger?? as i have experienced??
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