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From one point of view, it is all from Allah swt. From another point of view people should be educated to fulfil the rights of their children, parents etc.

One who has been abused in anyway needs to be able to move on after they grow up. They can do this obviously depending on the context of the actual abuse, by forgiving the people involved and looking at it from the point of view of it is written by Allah...Surah Yusuf in the Quran, Yusuf alahis salam forgives his step brothers who threw him down a well and caused him to be sold into slavery as a young lad. If forgiveness is not a option, the things they did were beyond forgiveness then one can hopefully separate ones self away from them, or get them dealt with by the authorities in your country. But bare in mind that abusers were usually abused themselves, or they are unconscious or doing things on auto-pilot. If someone is being abused and they are children still they should seek help from outside reach out to someone and seek help.