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Do children's have a right to a good upbringing?
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02-27-2012, 08:12 PM
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geniusxs81
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About the general homeschooling and schooling of children in general.
I like to keep my posts short, so I will be as brief as I can.
I don't think there are many parents out there who have the ability to adequately home school their children in terms of both religious and secular/scientific subjects. e.g. How well do you know physics.
However, No matter how the child is educated one day he will grow up and "go out in to the world" and the parent won't be able to be there every time. If a child is doing everything you are saying while home schooled, it could be that rather than believing/understanding and accepting what you say, he's just complying, a form of peer pressure, go and find out what people can end up doing via COMPLIANCE. When he's older and "out there", he might just comply with other people around him and not have the ability or courage to speak up for himself. i'm not saying this is what will happen, but it is one example. In a kuffar country one needs to know their enemy (in this case those who want to take you away from the right path).
About "below satisfactory" levels of some children's education. We can argue about the reason for this all day, but the real solution is for the parent to supplement the normal school education rather than leaving it all to the school. These students unfortunately come from a "poor" background. Their parents are poor because of their lack of aspiration and ambition, because the state makes it very easy for them to just be lazy and get everything done for them virtually for free. that is why when asked about their unemployment they complain either of "no jobs" or the "foreigner" getting all the jobs. One needs to ask why the foreigners are able to get a job while the Nativly based and educated person can't. ( this is a whole different/ non-islamic topic about education)
Main point: islam doesn't stop anyone being successful in duniya aswell as in deen. The status of islam cannot be mantained in the kufr states by just minding your own business and sticking to deen, why would people be envious of Islam if muslims aren't successful in duniyah. Success in duniyah is a sign of Allah's blessing.
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