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Old 02-27-2012, 09:17 PM   #24
L8fGLM4d

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It is easy for us in our ivory towers and standing far from the situation, to say xyz, without providing any proof.
Well you chose not to read the hadith I quoted in the last post.


Yes it does make a child forever indebted to his/her parents. This is not my personal opinion, this is what Islam dictates.

Which is the worst of Sins in Islam? Shirk, the only sin that Allah will not forgive without repenting. Even if ones parent is committing Shirk one does not have the right to cut relations with them. Only thing is one doesn't have to obey them if they order to go against Allah's Law. Other than that all the rights of the parents are intact.

Asma (radi Allahu anha) narrated: “My mother, who was a pagan, had come to see me in the days of the Messenger of Allah, so I sought the advice of the Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) about her visit. I told him, ‘My mother has come to see me and she is outside Islam, shall I treat her kindly?’ He said, ‘Yes, treat your mother kindly.’”
[Sahih Bukhari]

For explaination of the above hadith: http://dailyhadith.adaptivesolutions...ng-Parents.htm


Did you know that disobeying ones parents is a MAJOR SIN?

Abdullah bin `Amr bin Al-`as (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:
The Prophet (PBUH) said, "(Of the) major sins are: to ascribe partners to Allah, disobey parents, murder someone, and to take a false oath (intentionally)".

[Al-Bukhari].
Edit: If you want 'specific' proof that one should obey ones parents even if they are bad to their children,


Dutifulness to Parents, even if they are unjust

Ibn 'Abbas said, "If any Muslim obeys Allah regarding his parents, Allah will open two gates of the Garden for him. If there is only one parent, then one gate will be opened. If one of them is angry, then Allah will not be pleased with him until that parent is pleased with him."
He was asked, "Even if they wrong him?"
"Even if they wrong him" he replied.


[Al-Adab al-Mufrad Al-Bukhari]
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