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What happens if your staying passive like what is mentioned above makes the issue worse.
I try to be forgiving for the sake of Allah . Look at my own faults.

But do not always let other people dictate the direction a relationship is going.
Regardless at home / with relations or at office work / business.
Then again you have to know times when you need to be compromising .
The balance takes time to master.

Learn to be the one dominating human relations by using tact , charisma all the knowledge , wisdom
Allah gave you but use your power out of fear and love of Allah.
This is the most difficult and important IBADAH of Allah .
These are the kind of things that will get us in trouble most in Akhira and gives us trouble in this world.

Allah give us true Ilm and Amal . Allah forgive us all .