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**VYholden** · 02-27-2012, 12:12 AM

You have to give it some time. Taking abrupt steps can make things worse. Take small steps. One of the best ways to develop love and affection within yourself and your sister is by giving gifts. It has been greatly emphasized by our elders. You can buy small gifts which she likes and just leave them in her room, on her desk, once a week, or once a month, without saying anything about the gifts. And overtime, in'sha Allah, things will get better.

Most of the times we talk, like saying sorry to the person, but then the next day we end up doing the same things again to hurt each other. So we have to take practical steps to change ourselves from the inside and this takes time.

02-27-2012, 12:12 AM	#5
VYholden Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 635 Senior Member	You have to give it some time. Taking abrupt steps can make things worse. Take small steps. One of the best ways to develop love and affection within yourself and your sister is by giving gifts. It has been greatly emphasized by our elders. You can buy small gifts which she likes and just leave them in her room, on her desk, once a week, or once a month, without saying anything about the gifts. And overtime, in'sha Allah, things will get better. Most of the times we talk, like saying sorry to the person, but then the next day we end up doing the same things again to hurt each other. So we have to take practical steps to change ourselves from the inside and this takes time.
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