ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE marries with some level of selfishness, some more than others, some less than others. most women would not marry a homeless man who lives on the streets and has no job. they would want to marry a man who can provide a home, who has a job so he can provide neccesities and luxuries. so why cant a man marry a woman for HIS own needs? if the brother has a need to marry someone for home cooked food then how can there be anything wrong in that? all he has to do when finding a wife is to tell her what he wants her to do and if she agrees to that then where is the problem?