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**Adamdjeffe** · 02-15-2012, 12:08 AM

Except that don't couch this in religious term as though its a God ordained duty for a women to be his 2nd wife to cook his midday meal

no one has.

or that its a God ordained duty for his 1st wife to be happy and tolerable about such a husband.

what 'such a husband'?

a husband who decides to exercise his Allah given right to get a second wife?

Unfortunately that is the idea being promoted indirectly,

where? quote the post.

that a "good" muslimah would be quite submissive and ready to be a midday cooker wife

Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi 3272, narrated Abu Hurayrah

When Allah's Messenger was asked which woman was best he replied, "The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves."

for this poor little chubby bubu guy

why are you being abusive

who can't control his desires in his office time,

why are you slandering a muslim?

while the not so strong muslimahs have to be soaped and scrubed and brought into agreement to be midday cooker wife

soaped and scrubbed? what are you talking about? if the brother says to a potential bride that he would like her to cook for him and she agrees then where is the problem?

and a similar behaviour should be supposedly expected from his 1st wife to be a perfect muslimah.

you want your wife to be an imperfect muslimah? would anyone, male or female, would not want their spouses to be perfect muslim/muslimah?

02-15-2012, 12:08 AM	#17
Adamdjeffe Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 501 Senior Member	Except that don't couch this in religious term as though its a God ordained duty for a women to be his 2nd wife to cook his midday meal no one has. or that its a God ordained duty for his 1st wife to be happy and tolerable about such a husband. what 'such a husband'? a husband who decides to exercise his Allah given right to get a second wife? Unfortunately that is the idea being promoted indirectly, where? quote the post. that a "good" muslimah would be quite submissive and ready to be a midday cooker wife Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi 3272, narrated Abu Hurayrah When Allah's Messenger was asked which woman was best he replied, "The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves." for this poor little chubby bubu guy why are you being abusive who can't control his desires in his office time, why are you slandering a muslim? while the not so strong muslimahs have to be soaped and scrubed and brought into agreement to be midday cooker wife soaped and scrubbed? what are you talking about? if the brother says to a potential bride that he would like her to cook for him and she agrees then where is the problem? and a similar behaviour should be supposedly expected from his 1st wife to be a perfect muslimah. you want your wife to be an imperfect muslimah? would anyone, male or female, would not want their spouses to be perfect muslim/muslimah?
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