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**CHEAPPoem** · 02-15-2012, 11:16 AM

I am well aware of controlling desires and follow the commands of Allah... that is the reason I married at at the age of 24 and now I am 26

Anyway here is my todays schedule.. hope many of you will get what I am talking about.

I could have easily ate some snacks or anything outside.. but i don't eat.. that is the problem usually with my food.

usually i am out from 9.30 am to 9.30 pm.. so what is wrong if I have an another wife with me in this time ? who can look after my eating timings and food.

aoa,

you should just follw what is stated in islamic texts: you are allowed to marry again IF you can give both your wives their rights.
ofcourse marrying again isnt haram and you can do it if you want. but it is a very big IF.
if you find it easier to carry some home made food with you then that can work too (or any other solution besides a second wife). if you think only a second marriage will work then its your choice. but remb the big IF: you have to distribute your wealth, time and affection. if you can do it make istikhara and go ahead. if you are undecided still make istikhara. thats better than explaining yourself to self-opinionated people here.

02-15-2012, 11:16 AM	#29
CHEAPPoem Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 564 Senior Member	I am well aware of controlling desires and follow the commands of Allah... that is the reason I married at at the age of 24 and now I am 26 Anyway here is my todays schedule.. hope many of you will get what I am talking about. I could have easily ate some snacks or anything outside.. but i don't eat.. that is the problem usually with my food. usually i am out from 9.30 am to 9.30 pm.. so what is wrong if I have an another wife with me in this time ? who can look after my eating timings and food. aoa, you should just follw what is stated in islamic texts: you are allowed to marry again IF you can give both your wives their rights. ofcourse marrying again isnt haram and you can do it if you want. but it is a very big IF. if you find it easier to carry some home made food with you then that can work too (or any other solution besides a second wife). if you think only a second marriage will work then its your choice. but remb the big IF: you have to distribute your wealth, time and affection. if you can do it make istikhara and go ahead. if you are undecided still make istikhara. thats better than explaining yourself to self-opinionated people here.
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