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**blogforlovxr** · 02-03-2012, 08:04 PM

It's not easy. You can say many other things in anger, what purpose does utterance of divorce serve in the context of an argument? Secondly, the man has to utter it three times to end the marriage, and that is far from easy. The woman is the queen, she does not deserve to be threatened with divorce. Either the man wants to live with her or he doesn't. My wife and I have major arguments, yet it is possible to express one's anger in some other way than uttering the words of divorce, especially if you think about what's at stake.

Well it happens all over the place that a man issues divorce in anger and immediately regrets it but can do nothing about it. Not everyone manages to control their temper. A hundred and one other things said in anger have no consequence but this one utterance does. A hundred and one other sins do not have such direct, immediate and severe consequences, whereas issuing talaq isn't even a sin but has such devastating immediate consequences for a whole family.

Why?

02-03-2012, 08:04 PM	#3
blogforlovxr Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 673 Senior Member	It's not easy. You can say many other things in anger, what purpose does utterance of divorce serve in the context of an argument? Secondly, the man has to utter it three times to end the marriage, and that is far from easy. The woman is the queen, she does not deserve to be threatened with divorce. Either the man wants to live with her or he doesn't. My wife and I have major arguments, yet it is possible to express one's anger in some other way than uttering the words of divorce, especially if you think about what's at stake. Well it happens all over the place that a man issues divorce in anger and immediately regrets it but can do nothing about it. Not everyone manages to control their temper. A hundred and one other things said in anger have no consequence but this one utterance does. A hundred and one other sins do not have such direct, immediate and severe consequences, whereas issuing talaq isn't even a sin but has such devastating immediate consequences for a whole family. Why?
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