[Ocqljudq]

Very recently I went through an experience that had me asking these very same questions. What followed was a severe mental anguish and turmoil. I took a few moments to tell Allah swt what it felt like and immediately my heart was filled with relief. What I have realised is everything is a test from Allah.

As far as divorce is concerned, although the process is easy I have seen so many men who put with really angry and quarellsome wives but never utter the words. Whereas others do even if there are no serious problems, so it isn't the sharia that is responsible but us muslims.

I don't know if I am right but it certainly helps me understand, even divorce is a test from Allah swt. The woman who keeps patience will be greatly rewarded inshaAllah ta'la. If the family breaks apart because of the husband's impulsiveness then Allah swt will take care of the family but the husband, may Allah swt forgive him, will have to answer for his actions.

may Allah swt save us all from anger and it's ill consequences.