If we don't winging to our husband, to who else we are going to winging, apart from Allah swt of course. And I like to argue with my husband and sort out the issue we got once and for all. If that mean me telling him off and he telling me off, that's what we will do. Otherwise it will take longer than we think to understand each other. And to avoid divorce in any circumstances is to have emaan. Although we might be anger at one another, but me and my husband take it as our weakness as human being. We had to solves our differences and agree to disagree. And husband had to understand that staying home 24/7 is not an easy task as they think it is. Many working woman know that it's harder to stay home than go to work. At least going to work mean you will have break time, paid holiday and pension.