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Old 01-27-2012, 08:36 PM   #12
xFZ3k8Mw

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Muslims in the West should make an organization to take care of the reverts so that they do not
become victims of the corrupted Muslims seeking Western passports or other worldly gains.

If they fail to do it , soon you will see a chain-reaction . Islam will lose it appeal to the frustrated Westerners. They will be attrated towards other fake religions such as Buddhism !!


I agree with you, but let us not 'wait' for things to happen formally, if we know a revert, we should take care of them through all means possible.



Sister polishrevert, I feel so sad for you, you will definitely be in my Dua's, may Allah SWT have mercy on you and may He ease all of your troubles, its guys like your husband who dent the image of Islam, if you study Islam carefully, you'll discover amazing amazing things that Allah SWT has bestowed upon women.

Whatever happens, PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE ISLAM.
The problems with you have got nothing to do with Islam per se, they are actually the results of your husband not following Islam.

Look at what Allah SWT says...
A warning for men.

Jabir (radhiallaho anho) narrates that the Prophet (sallallaho alaihi wasallam) also gave these instructions in his sermon during the Farewell Pilgrimage. “Fear Allah regarding women; for you have taken them (in marriage) with the trust of Allah. (Mishtat)


This warning establishes the sanctity and inviolability of women's rights. In this teaching men have been cautioned that although they are guardians of women, they should not exercise this responsibility without concern and fear of accountability to Allah. They should be mindful that Allah is a witness between them and their wives and it is through His commandment and permission that women have been made lawful for them through marriage. Women are therefore in Allah's protection. If the husbands are cruel they are guilty of breaching their trust with Allah. How big an honour this is for women and how stern is the warning for their guardian husbands, that they should remember that women are in Allah's protection. (Ma 'Arif al-Hadith)

The wife is therefore entrusted to the man on a sacred pledge to which Allah is a party. Islam teaches that in this union the function of the woman is not only for the gratification of physical drives. On the contrary she is viewed as the most qualified partner of man in shaping the character of family and society for the realisation of the ultimate aims of human existence. Farewell advice for men.
The Holy Prophet (Sallallaho alaihi wasallam) has said: O people, your wives have a certain right over you and you have certain rights over them. Treat them well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. (Tirmidhi)

Fair dealings and good behaviour is necessary towards everyone, but the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihi wasaliam) the mercy for all mankind, emphasised it especially towards women. Kindness to the wife, an aspect of faith.

A'isha, (radhialiaho anha) reported Allah's messenger as saying, "Among the believers who show most perfect faith are those who have the best disposition, and are kindest to their families." (Tirmidhi)


Note: A'isha (radial ho anha), the Holy Prophet's wife, is one of the most famous women in Islamic history. She was gifted with an outstanding intelligence and memory and is considered to be one of the most reliable narrators of ahadith
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