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**sueplydup** · 01-24-2012, 06:56 PM

Respected Sister

"...but still today My heart is so heavy and dull"

As people have already stated your regret over you mistake is a sure sign that tour tawbah has been accepted. But the scholars have suggested that once the Tawbah has been done sincerely forget the sin. Don’t even dwel on it and have the belief that The MOST merciful and wiped you sin clean inshallah

“...The feelings of regret over fornication and so called love have dwelled envy and exasperation inside me against the people whom i see happy and satisfied”

“....Sometimes i feel like why the people are happy and why i am not”

This is common when people are going through bad time and are only temporary. When you see people happy and you get these feeling make dua
“O Allah increase their happiness” and in return the angles will make the same dua for you.
Sister whether you like it or not you need to look at the positive side of this situation.

Allah has inshallah has forgiven your mistake but if YOU choose to think about it over and over again then the pain will go on. You have control over how you see the issue. It will be hard but you need to start looking at the positive side.

“....I pray and read Quran alot and do zikr but it seems that the Allah is angry with me and Allah should be because I crossed the limits and transgressed the limits of Islam”

Be sure that Allah accepts ALL duas. Allah accepts dua when he destines itnright not when we say its right. Remember HE is our lord and we are his slaves NOT the other way around.

“...it seems like that i wont ever find a loving man....it seems as that i wont be happy again and i would stay the same”

You have to change this attitude else nothing will change. You have to have a goal and work towards it. If we have accepted defeat at the 1st hurdle then we wont work towards our goal. Allah treats his slaves as they think of him. think well of ALLAH, and i swear by his Honour he will respond in the best of ways

“.,...even they are facing so problems regarding finding a perfect match”

Don’t worry about that. Let your parents deal with their responsibilities. you do you job and let them do theirs. Don’t take on extra responsibilities

Allah knows best

01-24-2012, 06:56 PM	#5
sueplydup Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 538 Senior Member	Respected Sister "...but still today My heart is so heavy and dull" As people have already stated your regret over you mistake is a sure sign that tour tawbah has been accepted. But the scholars have suggested that once the Tawbah has been done sincerely forget the sin. Don’t even dwel on it and have the belief that The MOST merciful and wiped you sin clean inshallah “...The feelings of regret over fornication and so called love have dwelled envy and exasperation inside me against the people whom i see happy and satisfied” “....Sometimes i feel like why the people are happy and why i am not” This is common when people are going through bad time and are only temporary. When you see people happy and you get these feeling make dua “O Allah increase their happiness” and in return the angles will make the same dua for you. Sister whether you like it or not you need to look at the positive side of this situation. Allah has inshallah has forgiven your mistake but if YOU choose to think about it over and over again then the pain will go on. You have control over how you see the issue. It will be hard but you need to start looking at the positive side. “....I pray and read Quran alot and do zikr but it seems that the Allah is angry with me and Allah should be because I crossed the limits and transgressed the limits of Islam” Be sure that Allah accepts ALL duas. Allah accepts dua when he destines itnright not when we say its right. Remember HE is our lord and we are his slaves NOT the other way around. “...it seems like that i wont ever find a loving man....it seems as that i wont be happy again and i would stay the same” You have to change this attitude else nothing will change. You have to have a goal and work towards it. If we have accepted defeat at the 1st hurdle then we wont work towards our goal. Allah treats his slaves as they think of him. think well of ALLAH, and i swear by his Honour he will respond in the best of ways “.,...even they are facing so problems regarding finding a perfect match” Don’t worry about that. Let your parents deal with their responsibilities. you do you job and let them do theirs. Don’t take on extra responsibilities Allah knows best
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