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**googlopharm** · 10-28-2011, 05:51 PM

Bismillah
I don't what the big issue is here. If a brother or a sister have a liking for one another, make it halal. I find it odd with all the scholars supervising the forum, something like this can't be arraged. I always support any avenue that makes the process of nikah halal.
Also why would sisters be escared off. In one minute, one is saying to be hypersensitive and the other treat them like they would treat any other brother.. Confusing!! We all know women are completely wired differently so they have to give us a benefit of doubt.
Allahualam

There's nothing weird about women. They are normal human beings. They are a little bit more sensitive than men and don't like confrontational stuff too much... nothing new there- you should all know that by now, living in the real world.

SF is not a marriage agency where you start conversation with a female, get to know her and then propose to her to make it halal. If that was the case, every place where free-mixing occurs could be made into a halal environment based on the outcome at the end. Do remember that most sisters here are married so if you do find your mind roaming, please get off the forum or let us know in the sensitive section and we will gladly give you a ban. Don't spoil it for others who use the forum as a means of dawah, advice, knowledge and resource for Islamic discussion and opinion.

10-28-2011, 05:51 PM	#17
googlopharm Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 421 Senior Member	Bismillah I don't what the big issue is here. If a brother or a sister have a liking for one another, make it halal. I find it odd with all the scholars supervising the forum, something like this can't be arraged. I always support any avenue that makes the process of nikah halal. Also why would sisters be escared off. In one minute, one is saying to be hypersensitive and the other treat them like they would treat any other brother.. Confusing!! We all know women are completely wired differently so they have to give us a benefit of doubt. Allahualam There's nothing weird about women. They are normal human beings. They are a little bit more sensitive than men and don't like confrontational stuff too much... nothing new there- you should all know that by now, living in the real world. SF is not a marriage agency where you start conversation with a female, get to know her and then propose to her to make it halal. If that was the case, every place where free-mixing occurs could be made into a halal environment based on the outcome at the end. Do remember that most sisters here are married so if you do find your mind roaming, please get off the forum or let us know in the sensitive section and we will gladly give you a ban. Don't spoil it for others who use the forum as a means of dawah, advice, knowledge and resource for Islamic discussion and opinion.
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