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**BrainTop** · 10-29-2011, 01:43 AM

Dear Brother

It is not a matter of preventing discussion it is a matter of ensuring that the disease that is in the hearts of men and women is not given an avenue to express itself no matter how miniscule it might seem.

Brother, also bear in mind that I seriously doubt from the seerah that men could discuss with ghair mahram women along the following lines e.g. My cat is so cuuuttee....wonderful eyes and has lovely fur...!

It is essential that strict haya is maintained on an Islamic forum.

I do belive that overall all the moderators on this forum do a fantastic job of maintaining the conversation Islamic however this is a timely reminder that is well noting.

Thank you brother for explaining that. In that case then I agree that perhaps it's better to have a solution to handle that. Mods are in most cases excellent in doing their jobs and reminding the forum members about their etiquette. If the problem still persists, then perhaps a new subforum can be opened where gender segregation can be enforced and these idle talks can be moved into. Then these idle talks can be deleted automatically perhaps (much like how desktop trash can be timed to be automatically deleted). That way the sisters can continue their discussions/jokes among them for a while if it's permitted and the thread gets deleted automatically afterwards. But that's just an idea.

10-29-2011, 01:43 AM	#33
BrainTop Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 349 Senior Member	Dear Brother It is not a matter of preventing discussion it is a matter of ensuring that the disease that is in the hearts of men and women is not given an avenue to express itself no matter how miniscule it might seem. Brother, also bear in mind that I seriously doubt from the seerah that men could discuss with ghair mahram women along the following lines e.g. My cat is so cuuuttee....wonderful eyes and has lovely fur...! It is essential that strict haya is maintained on an Islamic forum. I do belive that overall all the moderators on this forum do a fantastic job of maintaining the conversation Islamic however this is a timely reminder that is well noting. Thank you brother for explaining that. In that case then I agree that perhaps it's better to have a solution to handle that. Mods are in most cases excellent in doing their jobs and reminding the forum members about their etiquette. If the problem still persists, then perhaps a new subforum can be opened where gender segregation can be enforced and these idle talks can be moved into. Then these idle talks can be deleted automatically perhaps (much like how desktop trash can be timed to be automatically deleted). That way the sisters can continue their discussions/jokes among them for a while if it's permitted and the thread gets deleted automatically afterwards. But that's just an idea.
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