[Teomaderm]

Wa Alaikum As Salaam,

the hadeeth says effeminate...gays can be effeminate too?

There are also straight effeminate men so it doesn't change anything.

Rasulullah (saws) considered this person to be from the غير اولي الاربة من الرجال (Surah Noor) - male attendants who lack vigour - but it turned out that he was well aware of everything and so was kicked out.