Thread: Am I Married?
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Old 01-16-2012, 02:56 PM   #1
venediene

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Default Am I Married?
Assalam-o-allaikum,

I am 21 yeard old and live in karachi. I was in love of a girl who is my now fiancee. One of my friend who is Imam in a Masjid suggested me to do Nikah. As our relation has already been fixed by our parents so I decided to do nikah. I realized that my parents until my younger sister gets married, will not do my Nikah. My friend (Imam) suggested that you just do Nikah for the sake of ALLAH because when you talk to her, studies in coaching with her is totally haram and both of you are getting sins. I realized this and I did Nikah with her. We didn't tell our parents about this because one day they will get us married together. I talked her about this matter. First she denied then she agreed and we both didn't tell our parents. My two teachers who are my best friends, I discussed this thing with them that only for the sake of ALLAH and do get rid of any sin like talking on sms, phone, studying together,etc is haram and we want to do nikah so that in AKHRAT we will not be having any sin. my both teachers became witness for her and one of my friend became wakeel for her and two of my friends became witness from my side. My Friend( Imam ) performed my Nikah without any paper like Pakistan Govt Paper for Nikah but he wrote all things in a simple paper.
Now I want to ask to Ulma and authentic person to have a glance on this matter. Am I married na? We did it just to save our self from any sin. It has been 5 months over and we are husband and wife and did not disclose to any one and behaves same as we used to.
Thanks.
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