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**casinobonusa** · 01-05-2012, 12:17 PM

Bismihee Ta'aala

Asalamualaikum.

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Look sister don't worry about finding the right guy. When the time comes, you will find the right person for you. Allah (SWT) has it written for every-one if they they will get married, and to whom they will marry. Just make sure you don't fall into haram. If you do find a guy you like then take it to your parents. Talk in front of mehrams and get to know each other.

If you do everything in a halal manner, then Allah (SWT) will put barakah (blessings) in your marriage insha Allah.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you have to get to know the brother extensively before getting married. Look how many marriages fail today. Majority of these marriages went that route, and they still failed. Not only did they fail, but they also displeased Allah (SWT) by doing haram before hand.

Put your faith in Allah (SWT) and he will show you the way and find the right one for you insha Allah.

01-05-2012, 12:17 PM	#3
casinobonusa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 596 Senior Member	Bismihee Ta'aala Asalamualaikum. - Look sister don't worry about finding the right guy. When the time comes, you will find the right person for you. Allah (SWT) has it written for every-one if they they will get married, and to whom they will marry. Just make sure you don't fall into haram. If you do find a guy you like then take it to your parents. Talk in front of mehrams and get to know each other. If you do everything in a halal manner, then Allah (SWT) will put barakah (blessings) in your marriage insha Allah. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you have to get to know the brother extensively before getting married. Look how many marriages fail today. Majority of these marriages went that route, and they still failed. Not only did they fail, but they also displeased Allah (SWT) by doing haram before hand. Put your faith in Allah (SWT) and he will show you the way and find the right one for you insha Allah.
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