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if you do agree, under pressure, you will be married though. There is NOT "I was pressured so I am not married".

you are under no compulsion to agree.
being a woman its very sensitive. Do not agree. May Allah give you himma to bear the trial. If your father sees something good in the deen and dunya of this man, that you do not see. May Allah make it apparent to you. May Allah open your father's heart to your needs.