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Assalamu alaykum

Issue like permissible or not will not help this sister. May be sisters on this forum can help her. May be she can be advised to meet the elders other than her father and ask them to convince the father to stop this brutality.

if im not mistaken the sister said she wants to be obedient to her parents and raise a good muslim family so if she felt taht she was rleigiously obligated to marry the guy then of course it will help her to know the prophet has removed any ability of a man to force his daughter to marry a particular person. if she understands that its not disobeying Allah then this can only be a good thing. Its not fair on the sister to be forced to marry someone she doesnt want and she deserves to be happy so I really hope you stay strong sister and dont marry this guy.

No wonder the ummah is in such a mess, why people always trying to force their daughters to marry people, dont they realise it will cause the young sisterrs to hate islam. especially if they dont know what the hadeeths say on the issue.

muslim attitude to marriage is problematic and its time we made some changes to the attitude of the ummah inshallah, marriage is one of those issues that is seriously abused. young girls are forced into marriage, good religious brothers are turned away because of skin colour or even caste (May ALlah protect us from following mushrik private part worshipping cow worshipping hindus ameen), children are not allowed to marry till they have a job, house, 2 cars, PHD, Allahu musta'aan what a mess.

Dear sister, stay firm and know that this oppression upon you is not te result of islam but the result of backwards culture and ignorant muslims